Goodbye, My Friend

I lost one of my best friends last weekend. Aaron Renner was one of the best men I've had the pleasure of knowing. He will be missed.

Aaron Renner was one of the first friends I made in college.

I had gone home from the weekend and, based on the stories of his antics circling when I returned, I had to introduce myself.  So I walked down the hall, knocked on the door, and said:

You don’t know me, but I hear you’re insane. Can I be your friend?

Most normal people would have shut the door in my face.  Aaron invited me to dinner.

I considered Aaron my best friend in college – we lived together, we worked together, we played chess together.  Once he even talked me into impersonating a professor so we could vote against a motion in the University Senate.

Knowing that I never made enough time to spend with my friend after college tears me up inside – particularly knowing that now I’ll never have that chance.

Aaron, you were the first friend I made after high school; I always considered you one of my closest. I’ll always have incredible memories of our time together and the crazy things we did for fun. I always valued your insight, your unique way of challenging opinions, and above all, your friendship.  Our time together was short – far too short – but will never be forgotten.

Rest in peace my friend, you will be missed.